Love gone bad

[gym_bob]

I just want to invite anyone who is grieving for a love gone bad, or for one that no longer exists, to speak about it in this forum in the hopes of getting feedback from those who have had similar experiences. The knowledge that we are not alone in our sufferings, can have a theraputic value.

So open up and don't leave it locked inside where it can do far more damage in the long run.

Have a great day!

[CLITCOMMANDER]

I met my wife in school and we flirted and talked and blah blah blah.  and then later on in life we met up again and there was a spark.  we spent everyday together after that.  after of about 3 months of this, meeting up and fuckin and partying and the usual.  i jsut out of now where asked the girl to marry me.  this girl has been dreaming of getting married since she was little.  anyway we ended up getting married in a little church out in the country of upstate ny.  things were lookin good until we came upon hard times.  we ended up have to move into her fathers house. which was a complete and total dump almost 24/7. and he has this girlfriend this old fat bitty thatwould just start shit with my wifes little sisters. and the stress started to mount up.  finaly enough was enough and i left. i wasnt brought up in an environment like that and i was going to spend even another minute living like that again.  my wife immediatly ended up takin pills and getitn drunk all the time and fucked some 57 year old douche bag bi crack head mother fucker. and we go our separate ways.  i had so much love for that women that it tore my fucking heart out.  i called her one night to see if she wanted to do something because you know im the chicks husband i should be able to show her a good time.  shes sitting at a bar trashed out of her mind with the dude talking shit in the background.  it took everything in me not to go to that bar and drag that mother fucker out of there by the head of his hair and give him the beating of a life time.  i wasnt going to stoop to her level. i left it at that and went on with my life.  well about 6 months goes by and one night she shows up on my door step crying her eyes out begging me to come back.  saying that im the only one she wants to have kids with and she wants to spend the rest of her life with me.  like a douche bag i fell for it.  and no sooner than we got back together we move back to her dads this time out in the country.  theres fucking 5 cats and 3 dogs and trash all over the place. i didnt really have anyother place to go so i stayed there.  the same shit goes on some of it worse she end up knocking her fathers boyfriend out with one punch and hilarity ensues.  after about two months we moved out to a bunch of bull shit to a nice little place. i had a good job and everything seemed ot be going fine.  i ended up going on the road to work after she told me she was pregnant so i could make some decent money before the baby was born.  i cam home after 13 weeks and my baby was born about 3 months later. that was the greatest day of my life and i will remember it until the day i die.  when i first held my little girl in my hands i immediatly burst into tears, i know a grown ass man crying (if ya dont like it.... tooo fucking bad)after 2 days we took the baby home we had a nice half a house in the town my parents live in and we were pretty happy for a while.  up until about 4 months ago things started getting sour again.  i was working constantly and she just sits on her ass all day and does nothing.  the place is always trashed and im sorry but if im working 14 hour shifts at a goddamn cheese factory then im not going to be in a mood to clean.  so we move again.  this time to the projects.  this is running a little longer than anticipated.  anyway she stars bitching and complaining constantly about every little thing i cant have a life anymore she questions ever little thing i do like shes fucking paranoid. one night she asks me if im cheating on her.  my momma brought me up better than that.  come to find out she is haveing sex with a guy in his truck while their at work.  i guess the saying goes if you feel guilty about cheating on a significant other and your trying to hide it the accusations usually come from the guilty party.  i dont know what it is but in every situation ive ever heard of the guilty party blames the other person.  after that she kicked me out of her house because my dumb ass didnt put my name on the lease and im currently staying with family i get my daughter when ever she allows it.  this weekend she said that she didnt want my daughter over here because shes afraid something is going to happen to her.  i would never in a million years let anything hurt my daughter. i strive to be a good father. but its hard when you have an exspouce thatis making it so hard for you to see your daughter.  i want absolutely nothing to do with my wife.  the words irreconciable differences and adultry seal the deal.  i hope this is what you had in mind nikki i guess i just ended up rantin more than anything.   Peace

[Rodelva26]

I have been on that area in my life and as a result I became a single parent to two kids now. I have found out that the guy I was with was not the right person for me.. It's just because of the thing that they called "WHIRLWIND ROMANCE" I jump on the first impulse of loving hoping and thinking that was actually the real thing but ended up hurting after I get bruises and badly bitten by the person whom I actually thought my perfect man.  And because it was only me who puts food on the table I have suddenly realized that love flies out of the window when hunger knocks at the door. I got fired in my job because my partner comes bolting in the middle of our meeting drunk and screaming foul words in front of everyone accusing me of being a cheat. That I'd rather spend time with my boss than with him on his birthday.. Which he refuses to understand because he was the one doing the bad thing..